Thursday, March 3, 2016
Eat a Balance Diet
A poor diet can bring greater reactivity toward stress. A healthy diet can bring greater physical and emotional wellness. Find some simple go-to meals and snacks, and feel less stressed in your daily life.
Practice time Management
Honing your time management skills
can allow you to minimize the stressors that you experience, and better
manage the ones you can't avoid. When you are able to complete
everything on your "to do" list without the stress of rushing or
forgetting, your whole life feels easier.
Plant a Garden
Getting outside and enjoying the scenery is just one of the ways that
gardening can contribute to stress relief. Read about the other stress reliever benefits of planting a garden.
Take a Walk
Exercise is a fantastic stress reliever that can work in minutes. Taking
a walk allows you to enjoy a change in scenery, which can get you into a
different frame of mind, and brings the benefits of exercise as well.
Learn about the other benefits of walking as a stress reliever.
Look into Biofeedback
While biofeedback requires some special equipment, this stress relief technique
can allow you to become more aware of and consciously alter the
physiological changes that come with stress. By using your mind to relax
your body, you can relax your mind to a greater degree as well,
creating a positive feedback loop.
Get more Laughter
The physical act of laughing releases tension and brings positive
physiological changes. Finding ways to work more laughter into your day
can be an effective route to stress relief.
Play Games
Enjoying a good game with a group of friends, or playing something
relaxing online can take your mind off of your stressors, and can lead
to a more relaxed state. Games are stress relievers that work well
because people enjoy them enough to use them regularly.
Use Breathing
Breathing exercises provide convenient and simple stress relief in that they can be used anytime, anywhere, and they work quickly.
Take the stress in and release it
Literally embrace whatever it is you're going through and then let it go. Try doing a tai chi exercise known as embracing the tiger, where you take your arms, spread them wide, put your hands together and then draw them—and everything around you—toward your navel, the center of your being. Doing this allows you to take the good with the bad. Then reverse your hands and push them out, releasing your tension. When you can control stress, it can no longer control you.
Identify at least one good thing that happened today
It's a scenario played out every evening all over the country: Come home from work and start venting to your spouse or roommate about your day. Instead of creating a negative atmosphere the minute you walk in the door, try starting off the evening with your family or friends by exchanging good news. Something good every day, you just need to recognize it.
Don't be so serious
There's nothing like anxiety to annihilate your sense of humor. It would follow, then, that it's impossible to feel stressed when you're hunched over in a fit of giggles. Studies have shown, in fact, that laughter not only relieves tension, but actually improves immune function. Swap jokes with your friends. Rent a funny movie. Stop taking things so seriously!
Speak a stress-free language
People who handle stress well tend to employ what stress experts call an
"optimistic explanatory style." They don't beat themselves up when
things don't work out in their favor.
So instead of using statements that catastrophize an incident, like "I'm a complete failure," they might say to themselves, "I need to work on my backhand." Or they'll transfer blame to an external source. Rather than saying, "I really blew that presentation," it's, "That was a tough group to engage."
Replace the word "expect" with "hope." Expectations can only be used for those things over which you have the greatest personal control. You can expect to quench your thirst with a drink of water. You cannot expect to get the job you just interviewed for. You can hope to get it.
So instead of using statements that catastrophize an incident, like "I'm a complete failure," they might say to themselves, "I need to work on my backhand." Or they'll transfer blame to an external source. Rather than saying, "I really blew that presentation," it's, "That was a tough group to engage."
Replace the word "expect" with "hope." Expectations can only be used for those things over which you have the greatest personal control. You can expect to quench your thirst with a drink of water. You cannot expect to get the job you just interviewed for. You can hope to get it.
Take time to be touched
Experts haven't figured out why having your body pressed and prodded
works wonders, but they know that it does. Studies suggest massage can
speed up weight gain in premature babies, improve lung function in
asthmatics and boost immunity in men with HIV. If you can't indulge in
regular full-body massages, treat yourself to the occasional pedicure,
manicure or facial—all nurturing, hands-on treats that offer some of the
benefits of massage.
Be faithful to your workout routines
Working out is one of the most effective stress relievers.
Researchers recently found that after spending 30 minutes on a
treadmill, their subjects scored 25 percent lower on tests that measure
anxiety and showed favorable changes in brain activity. If you only have
time to do one thing for yourself, make it sticking to your workout
routines. If you can't hit the gym or trails, even a brisk 30-minute
walk at lunch or getting up several times a day to stretch and walk
around will help relieve stress.
Talk about—or write out—what's worrying you
Writing or talking about the things that prey on you—in a diary, with
friends, in a support group or even a home computer file—helps you feel
less alone and helpless. Looked at people who had either rheumatoid
arthritis or asthma— conditions known to be stress-sensitive. One group
chronicled in a perfunctory manner the things they did each day. The
other group was asked to write daily about what it was like, including
fears and pain, to have their disease. What researchers found: People
who wrote at length about their feelings had far fewer episodes of their
illness.
Focus on your senses a few minutes a day
For a few minutes a day, practice being mindful—focusing only on what's
going on in the present —whether it's during your workout or taking a
break from your work. Try taking a short walk and instead of thinking
about what's worrying you, pay attention to your senses—what you see,
feel, hear, smell. This can make a huge difference in your emotional and
physical well-being when done daily.
Worry about one thing at a time
Married couples who kept stress diaries for six weeks found that women
feel stress more frequently than men because women tend to worry in a
more global way.
Whereas a man might fret about something actual and specific—such as the fact that he's just been passed over for a promotion—a woman will tend to worry abstractly about her job, her weight, plus the well-being of every member of her extended family. Keep your anxiety focused on real, immediate issues, and tune out imagined ones or those over which you have zero control, and you'll automatically reduce stress overload.
Whereas a man might fret about something actual and specific—such as the fact that he's just been passed over for a promotion—a woman will tend to worry abstractly about her job, her weight, plus the well-being of every member of her extended family. Keep your anxiety focused on real, immediate issues, and tune out imagined ones or those over which you have zero control, and you'll automatically reduce stress overload.
Do yoga
A simple spinal twist can help you get a better night's sleep. It
alleviates tension that's built up in your lower back throughout the
day. Sitting on your bed with legs crossed, place your right hand down
on the bed behind you and rest your left hand on your right knee. Sit up
straight and inhale for four to eight counts, lengthening your spine as
you breathe. On your exhale, begin to twist toward your right hand
(don't strain your neck). Hold this position for four more full breaths,
lengthening your spine on the inhales and deepening your twist on the
exhales, if it feels comfortable. Repeat yoga asanas on opposite side.
Recall a past success
Taking five minutes to reflect on how you pulled through other stressful
situations like your last breakup or when you switched jobs can help you
reconnect with your resilient side.
In the moment, it may feel as though you'll never get over your present problem, but when you look back, you realize that you felt similarly before and found a way to overcome it.
In the moment, it may feel as though you'll never get over your present problem, but when you look back, you realize that you felt similarly before and found a way to overcome it.
Give your thumbs a rest
Thanks to e-mail, cell phones, and BlackBerrys, it seems like your job
never ends. The increasingly blurry boundaries between work and home
life leave us with less downtime than ever before (and in some cases, no
downtime!). Advances in technology are a leading source of chronic
stress, putting many of us in a constant state of alert. Not to mention
the effect it has on family ties.
Hit the pool!
Stress Management found that floating in water triggers the body's
relaxation response, helping lower stress-hormone levels. Even better,
nearly 80 percent of the subjects showed improvements such as feeling
less tense and depressed.
Use the ATM once
Limiting your cash withdrawals to once a week is a quick, easy way to
monitor your spending habits. Multiple trips to the ATM make it harder
to track your money. If you put yourself on an allowance and pay cash
for everything, you're more aware of what you're spending and more
careful about what you buy.
Turn on some tunes
Slow or meditative music is a proven stress buster, so set your dial to a soothing station during your commute.
And, if you're stuck in a traffic jam, sneak in this quick exercise: Grab your steering wheel and clench the muscles in your fingers, arms, shoulders and back. Do this until your muscles begin to tremble (about 45 seconds), then release. You'll produce a wave of relief in your upper neck and arms all the way down to your fingers. Just make sure your foot is on the brake when you let go of the wheel!
And, if you're stuck in a traffic jam, sneak in this quick exercise: Grab your steering wheel and clench the muscles in your fingers, arms, shoulders and back. Do this until your muscles begin to tremble (about 45 seconds), then release. You'll produce a wave of relief in your upper neck and arms all the way down to your fingers. Just make sure your foot is on the brake when you let go of the wheel!
Use the proper hand washing technique
When you're under pressure, you're more susceptible to cold viruses and
other germs because your immune system is suppressed. Hand washing is
your best defense. Lather up with soap and warm water for 10-20 seconds,
or the time it takes to sing Happy Birthday.
Try a repeat performance
Doing almost any routine, repetitive activity (like vacuuming, shredding
paper or knitting), or reciting a word that represents how you wish you
felt (such as calm) is a quick way to achieve a Zen-like state.
Studies show the effects lower blood pressure and slow heart rate and breathing. The crucial elements are to focus on a word, your breathing or a movement and to bring your attention back to your task if your mind wanders or negative thoughts intrude.
Or look to your faith for a mantra: A recent study published in the Journal of Advanced Nursing found that repeating phrases with spiritual meanings helped participants cope with a range of problems, from anxiety to insomnia.
Studies show the effects lower blood pressure and slow heart rate and breathing. The crucial elements are to focus on a word, your breathing or a movement and to bring your attention back to your task if your mind wanders or negative thoughts intrude.
Or look to your faith for a mantra: A recent study published in the Journal of Advanced Nursing found that repeating phrases with spiritual meanings helped participants cope with a range of problems, from anxiety to insomnia.
Arm yourself with Healthy Snacks
More women than men (one in three) turn to comfort food such as ice
cream and cookies to ease stress. It's common for women to deny
themselves favorite foods because they're trying to lose weight. But
under stress, the urge for them becomes even stronger.
In fact, researchers confirmed that dieters are more likely than non-dieters to overeat when under pressure, bingeing on the very same high-fat foods they normally try to avoid. The key is to not deprive yourself. Keep three or four healthy snacks on hand that you know you'll probably want--peanuts, if you like salty; string cheese, if you crave protein; a small piece of chocolate for something sweet--so you aren't tempted to binge.
In fact, researchers confirmed that dieters are more likely than non-dieters to overeat when under pressure, bingeing on the very same high-fat foods they normally try to avoid. The key is to not deprive yourself. Keep three or four healthy snacks on hand that you know you'll probably want--peanuts, if you like salty; string cheese, if you crave protein; a small piece of chocolate for something sweet--so you aren't tempted to binge.
Prepare for Tomorrow.
Nothing is more stressful than being unprepared. Get organized so you're
ready for the next day, taking a few minutes to make a to-do list and
clean up before you leave. Knowing you've got everything covered means
you'll be less likely to fret about work in the evenings. When you come
in the next morning, you'll have the sense that you're in control of the
situation and can handle it. This sets a positive tone for the day,
which can help you get more accomplished.
Sunday, February 14, 2016
Make time for hobbies and interest
Make time for hobbies and interests. It can help a lot specially for relaxation and you can also enjoy and it may relieve stress.
Manage your time wisely
Try to manage your time wisely. Say no, where you can, to things that would add more stress to your life.
Keep positive
Keep a positive, realistic attitude. Accept that although you can't control certain things, you're in charge of how you respond. Stand up for yourself in a polite way. Share your feelings, opinions, or
beliefs, instead of becoming angry, defensive, or passive.
Organize your life
Organization offers a sense of control and peace of mind, and there’s a
number of ways you can improve in this regard. If you’re the kind of
person who’s always running around, it can help to make lists so that
you remember everything. If you’re the kind of person who feels edgy in
their own house, tidy up. Studies have shown the mere sight of clutter
can put us on edge.
Sleep
Sleep is the most important natural stress reducer of them all. Too little sleep leaves us cranky, irritable and on edge. Too much sleep can leave us sluggish and depressed. Try to find the right balance that allows you to feel well-rested and ready for the day. Promote better sleep by establishing bedtime rituals that signal to your brain that it’s time to fall asleep, avoid exercise in the three hours before sleep or take a warm bath. Certain foods can also promote sleep, such as carbohydrates, bananas, peanuts, figs, dairy and - of course, a certain holiday favorite. However, avoid having a large meal close to bedtime, because it may result in indigestion, reflux or heartburn.
Limit Internet and cellphone use
It is particularly important to cut off electronic use before sleep, which can cut down on insomnia-related problems.
Healthy Foods
It’s actually been proven that junk food can make us depressed. Healthy foods like whole grains and protein can improve your mood and give you long-lasting energy to tackle everything that comes your way during the day.
Also, put down that extra cup of coffee. While studies have shown that some coffee during the day can offer health benefits, too much caffeine will make you jittery and anxious, and eventually lead to a crash.
Laughter is the best medicine
Meditation
Music as a relaxation
Physical Activity
Physical activity plays a key role in reducing and preventing the effects of stress. Any Just about form of physical activity can help relieve stress and burn away anger, tension, and frustration. Exercise releases endorphins that boost your mood and make you feel good, and it can also serve as a valuable distraction to your daily worries. Even very small activities can add up over the course of a day. The first step is to get yourself up and moving.
Pick an Activity
Pick an activity you enjoy, so you’re more likely to stick with it. Instead of continuing to focus on your thoughts while you exercise, make a conscious effort to focus on your body and the physical sensations you experience as you’re moving. Adding this mindfulness element to your exercise routine will help you break out of the cycle of negative thoughts that often accompanies overwhelming stress.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)